Friday, December 20, 2024

Vayeshev. 24: Joseph and his Brothers, Part One: A Fall from Glory

Joseph and his Brothers, Part One: A Fall from Glory

D’var Torah on Parashat Vayeshev

By Rabbi Boaz D. Heilman

December 20, 2024


Few of the Torah’s stories are as moving and rich in structure and detail as the one of Joseph and his brothers. Consisting of almost a third of the entire book of Genesis, this magnificent story contains several motifs that help weave its many parts together: clothing, seeing, remembering (and forgetting), and recognition are but some of these. Yet along with all these elements, this famous story is also key to understanding the development and philosophy of Judaism. 

While the larger conflict in the story is between Joseph and Judah, they each need to learn some important lessons about themselves. Each will go through painful ordeals that will help them grow personally, even as they come to understand the role they are destined to play in the larger drama and history of our People. 

The title of this week's Torah portion (Vayeshev—"Jacob settled," Genesis 37:1—40:23) is vastly misleading. Despite the fact that his brother Esau returns to Edom without making any further claim on Jacob’s share of the Promised Land, and despite the fact that Jacob is finally back in his father’s land and perhaps initially even feeling “at home”, Jacob's new home-life is anything but settled. Not uncharacteristically, Jacob manages to ratchet up the tension that so far has been smoldering just below the surface within his own family. The storyline is familiar: Jacob loves Joseph more than his other sons and is not afraid (or perhaps is naïve enough) to put his preference out on full display. He presents Joseph with a multi-colored (or striped—there are various interpretations of the Hebrew word) tunic that represents both favoritism and power. Joseph meanwhile has his own visions of power and glory. He has dreams—first the one set in a field, in which his brothers' sheaves of wheat bow down to his; and then another, now set in the heavens, in which the sun, moon and eleven stars bow down to him personally. At this point, the jealousy that Joseph's brothers have been harboring from day one turns murderous. One day, as they herd their sheep at some distance from home, Jacob sends Joseph (again—brazenly or naively) to inquire after their welfare. Seeing him from afar, and undoubtedly recognizing his multi-colored coat, the brothers plot to kill Joseph. They seize the boy and are about to dispatch him but are dissuaded first by Reuben, who intends to return him to Jacob unharmed, and then by Judah—who views the possibility of selling Joseph into slavery as more advantageous ("He is [after all,] our brother and our flesh” (Gen. 37:27)). The brothers take his advice, and Joseph is sold to a caravan of spice and slave traders making their way down to Egypt. 

At this point the Torah turns its full attention to Judah. This part isn't always told in the more popular retellings of the story, but is essential to understanding Judah and the personal  transformation he will need to undertake--from a despicable villain to the person destined to become the leader of his people, indeed the Father of Judah-ism. This transformation will be brought about through the agency of Tamar, Judah's daughter-in-law. After the death of Tamar's husband—Judah's first born, Er—Judah gives her to his second son, Onan. In doing so, Judah is following the custom of levirate marriage—meant to provide livelihood and legal protection to a widow. Onan however refuses to fulfill his duty and is smitten by God. Judah has one remaining son, but he is now afraid for the boy's life and sends Tamar back to her own family, promising to take her back when the boy is fully grown. However, Judah soon forgets his promise.

Some time later, Tamar learns that her father-in-law is in the vicinity. Dressing as a harlot and positioning herself at a major crossroads, she manages to seduce Judah--who (what a louse he proves to be!) is unable to pay her right away. Tamar instead asks for his staff and signet ring (OK—so he's more than a louse, he's also very stupid; the staff and signet ring are symbols of his identity and authority). Three months later, Judah hears that Tamar is pregnant. He orders that she be burnt at the stake for her infidelity. However, at the last moment Tamar produces the evidence and announces that the father is the none else but the owner of the staff and ring. Judah is publicly humiliated, but for once in his life makes the right—and ethical—choice: he admits his wrongs. “She has been more righteous than I," he proclaims (Gen. 38:26). He still has a long way to go, but this admission of guilt is the first step towards Judah's redemption. 

Turning back to Joseph, we now learn that he's been sold to a wealthy Egyptian—Potiphar—who gives Joseph the run of the house. Potiphar's wife is smitten by Joseph's good looks and attempts to seduce him. Joseph however manages to repel her, but at one point flees in a panic, leaving his tunic in her hand. Raising a hue and a cry, Potiphar’s wife accuses Joseph of attempting to rape her. Enraged, Potiphar has Joseph thrown in prison. But even there Joseph proves successful in everything he does—and keeps up his reputation as diviner of dreams.

However, the portion ends with Joseph still languishing in the dungeon, forgotten and with little hope for redemption and freedom.

To be continued.



© 2024 by Boaz D. Heilman


Friday, December 13, 2024

Jacob's Trail of Tears: Vayishlach.24

Jacob's Trail of Tears: Vayishlach

By Rabbi Boaz D. Heilman

December 13, 2024


This week's Torah portion, Va-yishlach ("He sent messengers," Genesis 32:4--36:43), continues the tragic saga of Jacob, the third patriarch of the Jewish People. No longer pursued by Laban, his treacherous father-in-law, Jacob still has to face his first pursuer—his own twin brother, Esau. Jacob has left aspects of his past behind him several times. First, when he left his home (Genesis 28:10) to escape Esau's rage. A second time is his escape from Laban's house, where he had spent 20 years laboring for love and fortune. Now, however, as Jacob makes his way back to his homeland, he realizes that the past has no time limit. Esau is coming towards him along with 400 armed men. Jacob does all he can to protect himself and his family. He sends ahead messengers (mal’achim, the same word as “angels”) bearing lavish gifts along with the promise that more would be forthcoming. Then he divides his family and possessions into two camps, hoping that even if one is destroyed the other would still be safe. (Rachel and Joseph are in the latter camp of course, a gesture that no one in Jacob's family fails to notice and which will cause even more jealousy than already existed among them). Sending both camps ahead, Jacob remains alone on a mountaintop. 

There follows a mysterious encounter that turns into a wrestling match. The Torah first describes the confrontation as between Jacob and "a man," but then lets Jacob—and us—understand that this was a "divine being." Wrestling until the dawn breaks, Jacob is hurt, but not defeated. In return for releasing the angel, Jacob demands a blessing, which he receives along with a name change. Jacob now becomes Yisrael, meaning, "You have struggled with God and with men, and have prevailed" (Gen. 32:28 NKJV--it is verse 29 in the Hebrew version).  

Limping forward but heartened by the blessing, Jacob discovers within himself the courage to face Esau. Spoiler alert: The meeting between the two brothers goes well; Esau is appeased by Jacob's gifts and language--even if there was no actual apology in anything Jacob said. These are all the result of God's blessings, Jacob declares. Nothing has come to him from the (stolen) birthright blessings he had received from Isaac. Jacob's cleverness works once again, and Esau departs, letting Jacob proceed at his own pace to meet his own future. 

Sadly however, the future is anything but peaceful. Dina, the daughter born to Jacob and Leah, goes out "to see the daughters of the land" (Gen. 34:1). She is seized and raped by the prince of the city. Two of Jacob's sons, Shimon and Levi, are so enraged that they trick the men of the city into circumcising themselves. At night, as the men of Shechem are lying in agony, the two brothers fall upon them, slaughter all the men and seize their possessions. 

The tragedies continue: Deborah, Rebecca's nursemaid (who evidently joins Jacob's tribe, possibly to help with all the children), dies. Soon afterwards, in giving birth to Benjamin, the beloved Rachel dies too, and is buried along the way to Bethlehem. Step by tragic step, Jacob continues on his path home. When he finally gets there, he realizes that Rebecca, his mother, had died during the years he was away. He does manage to see his father, Isaac, but the Torah says nothing about this meeting, leaving it all up to our imagination.

On a somewhat hopeful note, when Isaac dies his two sons--Jacob AND Esau--come together to bury him. Peace, the Torah implies, even among sworn enemies, is possible when we recognize a mutual legacy. Fraught with errors and mistakes, our collective past is still what we have in common. Shalom--peace--is only possible when we join together broken pieces, fixing and making whole again that which was broken in the past.

It's a lesson that will be reinforced through the next story in the book of Genesis: the story of Joseph and his brothers.



© 2024 by Boaz D. Heilman


Friday, December 6, 2024

Discovering Faith on the Path of Life: Va-Yeitzei.24

Discovering Faith on the Path of Life: Va-Yeitzei

D’var Torah by Rabbi Boaz D. Heilman

December 5, 2024


My friend Reuven, a scholar, teacher and blogger whose wisdom and friendship have long enriched my life, likes to call the first book of the Torah, Genesis, "the book of beginnings." And of course he is right. Genesis is about the beginning of creation and civilization as we know them, as well as the beginning of the Jewish People and the Jewish way of life. With Abraham and Sarah, then Isaac and Rebecca, the book lays the foundation for Jewish belief. Now, as the story of Jacob and his wives Rachel and Leah begins, we learn of the origins of the Jewish People. 

All beginnings are chaotic. We start with raw material and then, hopefully, find inspiration, goal and direction. So it is also with Jacob, our third Patriarch. Va-Yeitzei, this week's Torah portion, Genesis 28:10—32:3, literally means “he set out,” and as the story begins, Jacob leaves his father's and mother's home, fleeing the murderous rage of his twin brother Esau. Young and naïve, not skilled with the hunter’s spear as his brother Esau, Jacob is filled with fear and dread. Even though God appears to him in a dream (the famous "Jacob's ladder" scene, Gen. 28:12-16) and promises protection along all his journeys, Jacob's faith is riddled with misgivings. When he arrives at his uncle Laban's house, his journey's goal, he is at first greeted with joy (and Rachel's love), but the joy proves fleeting. Cheating and conniving seem to run rampant in this family. Laban cheats Jacob several times over, and Jacob reciprocates by using magic to increase his wealth. At least that's what he thinks he is doing, though his later explanation of what exactly happened (Gen. 31:8-10) leaves us mystified--does he really believe his own story, or is he beginning to perceive God's hand in his success? Rachel--the beloved wife--and Leah, her unloved sister, compete for Jacob's love, and between them and their handmaidens give birth to eleven of the 12 sons who will become "B'nai Yisrael," the Children of Israel, aka the Jewish People. (There is also one daughter, Dina, whose tragic story and fate are part of next week’s portion). Meanwhile, with all the chaos, cheating and dishonesty in Laban’s household coming to a head, God appears to Jacob once again and commands him to return home. While keeping his father-in-law in the dark about his plans, Jacob gathers his family and all his accumulated wealth and possessions and--yet again--is forced to flee what has been his home for 20 years. Laban and his jealous, hate-filled sons (where have we heard this before??) give chase to the fugitives, but God warns them against causing any harm to Jacob or his family. As the portion ends, Jacob sees angels once again, reinforcing his growing understanding that God is not just some local deity, in conformity with other religious beliefs of the time and place, but rather is the One God whose sovereignty extends over all creation, the God of Israel.

Jacob is quite possibly the most "human" of the three Patriarchs, the one we can most relate to. Our journey in life, like Jacob's, is often dictated by forces outside our control, and we react as best as we can, using whatever talents and gifts we may possess. Our faith competes with reality until—sometimes sooner, sometimes later in life—we somehow find our way back to the beliefs of our ancestors and reclaim our roots. Like Jacob, perceiving the guiding hand of God in our life’s journey is a gradual process. It does not prevent or excuse us from making mistakes. These have to be corrected along the way, as we slowly come to see the story of our life unfold and reach its inevitable conclusion. Finding our way home is challenging, but it is not without rewards and blessings, if we but open our eyes and see God's angels accompanying us all along the way. 

May our path be less torturous and tragic than Jacob's.



© 2024 by Boaz D. Heilman